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How Dancing Mirrors Your Relationship

Swing dance lessons Chandler AZAre you looking for a little more fun in your relationship? Would better communication between you and your partner be helpful? Are you missing a deeper connection with your special someone? If you answered “YES!” to any of these questions, couples’s dance lessons may be exactly what you two need.

Adult dance lessons in popular styles from Country Western dancing to Latin dancing offer so much more than just steps for duo’s. I’m talking a chance to work as a team, support each other as you discover a new skill, and so much more! If you want a great gauge as to where you’re at in your relationship, visit your local dance studio for a private lesson or two. You may be surprised as to what is revealed.

As your dance instructor, I can spot out the deeper issues between most couples within the first 30 minutes of a lesson.  Most often, and subconsciously of course, couples communicate with each other on the dance floor the same way they would off the dance floor. I see a lot of the “blame game”, and a general lack of connection between the pair. Unfortunately, this is the norm. The good news is that their behavior is totally changeable as the couple works together towards a common goal of becoming great dancers. Through Private Dance Lessons, couples will have the opportunity to grow in ways that will bring great positive change in their partnership. Here are just a few of them…

  1. A deeper connection. So many couples begin Swing or Two Step dance lessons later in life. They wait for their kids to leave the home, and then they finally make time for each other after years of doing their own thing. Why wait? You will actually be giving more to your children by taking on a romantic hobby with your spouse when they are young. Granted, a babysitter/more planning will be required to make this happen, but what child wouldn’t love to watch mom and dad holding each other tight, smiling and dancing together?
  2. Teamwork. While raising children is a team effort, it is not the most romantic part of one’s day. With couple’s dance lessons, you will be working together and making time to be intimate. This definitely is needed after a long day or week in any couple’s relationship.
  3. Improved communication. Ballroom dancing, even on a social level, requires an understanding of what the other person needs in order to work. On top of that, the communication is non-verbal, so it must be conveyed clearly. With dance lessons, twosome’s can really benefit from this higher form of connection, making their relationship more complete and healthy. Who doesn’t want that?

Regardless of what stage of your relationship you’re in, give Private Dance Lessons a try! You, your partner, and those around you will certainly benefit from the added romance, stronger connection and improved communication that couple’s dance lessons can provide.