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The Power of Social Dancing for Women

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social dancing in ArizonaWelcome to part two of my mini blog series on the incredible impact that social dancing has on both men and women. In my previous blog, I wrote on the effects that knowing how to dance can have on men. Now, let’s get to us ladies!

Women, if there’s one thing that we need, probably more than anything, it would be a way to relieve stress, right? I mean, how often do we put ourselves first by carving out that much needed “me” time? Chances are, if you’re a busy mom, a working woman, or both, a means to let go and unwind at the end of your day is usually impossible, but actually quite necessary. With social dance lessons, you can come in to your local social ballroom dance studio and be swept off of your feet. You deserve it, so why not come in and enjoy yourself!?

Some of our favorite dances that will help you to forget about that hectic work meeting include Salsa, Swing and Country Two Step. These dances are not only popular, but they are fun and easy to learn. With Private Dance Lessons, all of the focus can be on you, giving you better skills on any dance floor, and the chance to fill yourself with something joyous and healthful.

For women, dancing is also an incredible form of self-expression. It’s easy for anyone to bottle things up and not seek creative practices to let things go. When you learn to Salsa dance or Tango, though, you can let go of your inhibitions and feel free. It’s pretty awesome! Now this doesn’t happen overnight, but it’s the process that is the point. Are you moving in the direction of having a creative outlet, or are you busy running all of the time? That is the question. Stop to have a dance, kick up your heels and relax. It’s great fun!

Social ballroom dance lessons can also do wonders for your relationship. Making time to dedicate to each other and away from everything else is essential. Through the process of learning to dance, you will see how it is his role to help you to relax and let go as he takes the reins. This can be a very scary thought for many women, but one that secretly may excite you as well. Once he knows what he’s doing on the dance floor, it’s a great feeling to be led by a confident man.

Let social dancing be your outlet that gets the heart pumping and wipes your worries away. Visit us at Dance FX Studios to begin your exciting journey into social dancing. You’ll be so happy you did!

 

 

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Why Social Dancing Sells…

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social dance lessons in ArizonaHow do you feel when you watch a couple who can dance? Do you envy them as they are gliding across the floor, with smiles on from ear to ear? Most of us do. Social ballroom dancing evokes much emotion, from nostalgic memories of dancing atop your parents feet, to looking cool amongst your peers in those Country bars. While Dancing With The Stars may take credit for the seeming explosion of ballroom/social dancing back in the mainstream headlines, social partner dancing has actually been a part of our culture for many years now.

Most recently, you can’t watch a luxury car commercial without also seeing a couple Tango dancing in the background. “What’s up with that?”, you may be wondering. Well, we oftentimes (and accurately) relate partner dancing to elegance, grace and confidence…the same feelings we want others to have when we are seen in our new sporty Lexus, or Porsche. Interesting, isn’t it? Additionally, dancing the Tango or Salsa dancing says steamy, passionate and “not alone”. Luxury car drivers may want to give off that vibe as well. The message: Because I drive this fast car, I’m a “sweep you off of your feet” kind of guy. We’ll be dining in fancy restaurants and dancing late into the night… How many of us ladies wouldn’t get excited about that? Not too many.

Now rewind to the pop-culture movies of the 80’s and 90’s. From Sixteen Candles to When Harry Met Sally to Dirty Dancing, social dancing meant that you made it! Whether it was at Prom, or on New Year’s Eve, those final dancing scenes equated to finding love, adding romance and being happy. Nothing has changed, and dancing is hotter than ever, fortunately!

These days, Country dancing is hot, hot hot! In fact, it has taken on a life of its own! Thanks to popular Country artists like Blake Shelton and Carrie Underwood, everyone (at least here in Arizona) now wants to Country Two Step and Swing dance to their favorite tunes. And why not, Country dancing is easy, flirty and tons of fun! And, with the confidence that you can gain by taking Country dance lessons, you will be even more exciting to dance with when you favorite song comes on!

Partner dancing is here to stay. Not only is this a good thing, but it’s actually a great thing! How we feel when we dance is irreplaceable. For a woman, it can mean a chance to let go and not worry about controlling a situation. It can also mean being shown off and feeling beautiful, elegant or sexy. For a man, knowing how to dance builds self-assurance. He gets to be in charge on the dance floor, which is a fun thing for guys and quite empowering.

Social partner dancing helps us to connect with each other more intimately, and adds more romance to any relationship. For singles, knowing how to dance can lead to love, or at least a partner in crime when going out Swing dancing or to a Latin dance club.

If you haven’t learned to dance yet, it’s not too late. Phoenix East Valley residents can visit us at Dance FX Studios. We will get you started with beginners dance lessons so that you too can gain all of the amazing rewards of knowing how to dance.

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Empowering Your Leader on the Dance Floor

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couple salsa dancing in ArizonaLadies… Wouldn’t it be amazing if your man wanted to take you out Salsa dancing or Country Two Stepping this weekend? How wonderful would be if it was HIS idea to dance the night away, rather than hanging out at the bar or staying home? Most women love to dance, but there are a couple of things to remember when it comes to our men and dancing.

1. Guys can’t fake it: Did you know that most men secretly wish that they could twirl you across the floor with ease? They would love to naturally have the confidence and skill set to bust a move Country Swing dancing or during a steamy Latin dance song. Then why don’t they just take you out there and do it? Because most men need to have the information on how to do it right before they can give it a try. “Faking it” as a leader is too large a risk when in it comes to looking “stupid” on the dance floor.

After training leaders on how to dance for almost 20 years, we hear the same story time and again. “If I knew what I was doing out there, surely I would take my wife out dancing.” Simply put, most men want the safety of knowing how things work so they can execute their dance moves with full assurance of success.

How do men get that certainty they desire when it comes to social dancing? Our recommendation: Private Dance Lessons. With one-on-one instruction, guys can receive the tools they need to shine at a Country bar, wedding or Latin dance club. Whenever music is being played, you can go out and have some fun with a competent leader who is empowered.

2. By “helping” him on the dance floor, he will never be the leader you want him to be.: If you are seeking that empowered, competent guy on the dance floor, then ladies, please, please don’t “help” your man by doing his job. We know you want to be turned, twisted and swept off of your feet, but leading yourself is the opposite of empowering your man.

Unlike most of forms of dance, partner dancing gives men both the tools and confidence they need to become a better leaders on and off the dance floor, empowering them to become more decisive and assertive for the women they lead and life in general. I mean, what woman doesn’t like a man to “take charge and make things happen?” Great thing is that it also teaches women to truly “follow and enjoy the ride”; so for all you powerful ladies out there, by learning to Salsa or Swing dance with your man, you can actually relax and be confident in knowing that he can take charge while having fun at the same time. So now you can relinquish the need to “help” and let him do his thing. He will walk away proud, and so will you with such a great leader by your side.

Certain dances like Jitterbug Swing and Nightclub 2 Step, give a firm establishment of roles on who leads and who follows. This clear definition allows men “come into their own element” by teaching them how to lead a woman across the dance floor with a progressive physiology, sense of decisive action and forward-thinking mentality, while simultaneously training women to “be fully present in the moment” and give their multi-tasking minds a much needed rest! By teaching men and women how to dance in such a way, can you now see why this skill can be both transforming and liberating? If you live in Arizona area, we at Dance FX Studios in Mesa, Arizona challenge you this New Year to try partner dancing for yourself and reap the benefits that it has to offer. With dance lessons, you will not only be adding romance back into your relationships and improving your health, but you can also change your life for the better in more ways than you can imagine!

 

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How To Get Him Excited About A Wedding Dance

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wedding dance lesson in ArizonaHe proposed. Congratulations! You have the most amazing venue picked out, your dream gown is being hemmed and the flowers have been ordered. What’s left to do? Why, the first dance, of course! You have a cool youtube-esque idea in mind…start out with the typical “prom sway” and then bust into an unexpected Country Two Step dance. It will go perfect with your rustic theme. The only glitch in your vision for the perfect wedding dance? Your fiance. You know that you need wedding dance lessons, but how are you going to convince him to sign up for wedding dance lessons? Here are a few ways to get your man excited about learning to dance for your big day:

1. Pick out a song he loves. Who doesn’t love to groove to their favorite tune-especially with their sweetie? Finding a song with meaningful lyrics will make your man want to show his love for you on the dance floor. Remind him of the special memories that the song holds for you as a couple and he’s sure to want to share that with your guests.

Maybe your guy is more on the wild side. Let him show off with a solo part in your first dance so he can be the center of attention. Maybe a spicy Argentine Tango or a saucy Salsa will get him pumped about performing in front of friends and family. Your dance will surely be a crowd-pleaser.

2. Appeal to his ego. The last thing that a man wants is to look “stupid” in front of his closest friends and family. This overwhelming fear of not being comfortable and looking smooth on the dance floor will make any man want to take a few wedding dance lessons. Plus, once he discovers that he gets to be in charge on the dance floor, he will keep coming back for more fun! In the meantime, you will learn a hobby as a couple that you can use time and again for other people’s weddings, on date nights to popular Country bars or Latin clubs, and at holiday parties. Wedding dance lessons are also wonderful for relieving those common pre-wedding stresses. When you’re dancing, it’s virtually impossible to think of anything else!

3. Sign him up for wedding dance lessons. Once your guy knows what he’s doing, he will thank you for signing him up for wedding dance lessons. To get started, shop around for a local ballroom dance studio that will choreograph something just for you. No cookie-cutter routine, but a one-of a-kind dance that will really reflect who you are as a couple. Be it simple and elegant or totally unique, you can shine with wedding dance lessons from a ballroom studio that knows what you are looking for specifically.

If you live in the Phoenix East Valley and are getting married, come visit us at Dance FX Studios in Mesa, Arizona for a Wedding Dance Consultation. The professional instructors at Dance FX Studios have been choreographing wedding dances for the past 15 years for Arizona brides and grooms. We are available for a Wedding Dance Consultation 6 days/week by appointment. Give us a call at 480-968-6177 or fill out the form below to begin your exciting adventure of learning to dance for your wedding today!

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