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How to Relax During Your Dance Lessons

 arizona Country dance lessonsYou pull into the parking lot of your local dance studio when suddenly you realize, you have no recollection of driving there. The entire time you should’ve been focused on the road, you were thinking about maintaining a solid dance frame, not rocking back too far on your heels, or leading with your torso when you’re dancing the Argentine Tango. You have a few extra minutes before your dance lesson starts, so you grab some coffee. You notice your hands shaking mildly, as the anxiety is building. You’re so worked up about doing a great job and nailing all of your moves, that you can’t relax. As soon as you get out onto the floor, your body decides not to cooperate. When you want to go left, you find your right foot has a mind of its own…

Sound familiar? If so, you’re not alone. As a professional ballroom dance instructor at Dance FX Studios, the best advice I could give my students would just be to RELAX. Usually this will happen within the first few minutes of getting out on to the floor after a long day at work. However, when the anxiety lingers, that’s when I find my students having the most difficult time, whether we are Swing dancing or Country dancing. I have noticed that with just a few coping mechanisms in place ahead of time, your Private Dance Lesson can get off to a much better start.

First… When push comes to shove, I tell my students to “walk it out”! If you’re struggling with a new Salsa dance combination, FREEZE! Stop dancing for a minute so your feet can catch up with your brain and simply walk through it. By taking some time to go through your moves in slow motion, you give your body more of a chance to create the muscle memory for each skill. Once you feel more confident in walking mode, you can slowly increase the speed to polish up your transitions in and out of each Latin dance move.

Next, breathe and be patient with yourself. Just like most things in life, learning new skills takes time, and social ballroom dancing is no exception. Fred Astaire certainly did not learn to dance in a day, and it most likely will take you a bit more time too. It’s rare for almost anyone to have a complete natural ability in any sport or physical activity immediately, so give yourself time to discover and grow. With patience and great instruction, you can certainly do almost anything. If you have ever tried learning how to play a musical instrument, you probably know that you played more “wrong” notes at first than “right” ones.

Finally, know that repetition is not a punishment! Think back to Kindergarten for a moment. When you were learning how to write the alphabet, the teacher didn’t just show you once and expect you to do it perfectly thus forward. Instead she probably started with having you trace each letter several times before trying to freehand your own. Then, you wrote line after line of abc’s until you didn’t really have to think about how to shape each letter. Dancing parallels this to a tee. First you have to learn how to hold your pencil (or partner). Then you have to learn how to move your pencil across the paper (or your partner across the dance floor). Then you learn how to shape each letter (or move) robotically. After a few months of practice, you can write without having to think too hard about what shape each letter makes. How soon you can start writing in cursive smoothly will depend on how often you practice.

Ironically, adult dance lessons can be more stressful than they are relaxing in the initial stages of learning, but the end result will be a wonderfully enjoyable and quite relaxing hobby that you can use for years to come. Give yourself and those you love the gift of Private Dance Lessons to get the best results on the dance floor in the shortest time possible. Guaranteed, you will have a skill that will impress others and provide hours of fun for many years ahead!

 

How to Know if Swing Dancing is for you…

Swing dance lessons near Chandler ArizonaAre you looking for a fun way to relax after work? Have you been wanting to try something new and exciting? Does meeting a few new friends with similar interests sound like something you need more of? Then learning to Swing dance may be just what you’ve been missing!

How do you know if Swing dancing is for you? Let’s start by identifying what kind of music you listen to. If you like Oldies, Big Band, Rock and Roll, Hip Hop or Country music, Swing dancing has you covered. There are actually 24 variations of Swing dancing, so your favorite types of music are sure to be included in this versatile dance. How cool is that!?

If you didn’t select any of the above music genres, that’s OK. You just may learn to love them after you see how much fun it is to Swing dance. With Swing dance lessons you’ll discover how easy it is to spin and turn with the best of them. You will also most likely be smiling from ear to ear because of the feel-good characteristics of the Swing. To sum it up, Swing dance lessons are a wonderful way to relax and unwind at the end of a hectic day. There will be a little skip in your step and a second wind from your lessons that will put you in a great frame of mind before you have to go to bed and do it all over again.

Once you’ve taken Swing Dance Lessons at a dance studio near you, you can find local places to dance the Swing, from Country bars to retro venues around town. What a creative and cool way to connect with others who also love to dance! Start putting your skills to the test in the real world and before long, you’ll have a new group of buddies to share in your new hobby.

Swing dancing is not only relaxing, fun and a fantastic way to meet people, but it also is quite aerobic, which is amazing. When you think about it, Swing dancing checks off many boxes. You can virtually skip the gym as long as you Swing dance on a regular basis because you’ll be burning up to 450 calories per hour….just by dancing! With an increased heart rate, your fitness goals can align with your social and personal goals to make Swing dancing your all-in-one cure for many areas of your life.

Have you decided that Swing dancing is for you? I hope so! Give beginner’s Swing Dance Lessons a shot and see how it opens you up to new possibilities, and provides an incredible outlet for endless hours of fun.